What do I wear is a regular and interesting discussion on our fear of public speaking course.
If you think people have turned up to judge you for what you look like, I seriously believe you are mistaken. People are driven by self-interest. They want you to offer them something they can adopt, adapt and utilise from 5 pm onwards. They want tips, tools and techniques, and insights that will give them an advantage.
Let me qualify this: do I shower, shave, and comb my hair every morning? Yes. Do I brush my teeth and wear smart, clean clothes for work? Yes. That makes me feel good, and it shows respect for my clients.
I think that is one of the underpinning elements of rapport, effectively being comfortable with yourself while accepting others.
There can, of course, be exceptions. I have had many students in the hair/beauty/fashion world, where 'image' is what makes people attend. That's fine. Look and dress appropriately if your audience has an expectation. Generally, the substance is what people turn out for. Just be comfortable with yourself and how you look.
If Yoda does show up at any of your meetings, get his number, and please contact me.
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